So I keep waiting for my Aha moment!! You know the one Oprah promised all of us we'd have!! Well I'm in my early 40's and I'm still waiting to be struck by lightning and wake up and be like "AHA....now I get it!" Instead, its been more like a dozen little "Pssst's" ringing a mantra in my ear. Don't get me wrong, I couldn't make it without those, however I'm finding out life really just isn't easy or fair....we can't all be like Oprah I guess.
I had someone a little while ago comment on how they love watching all of my families antics on social media. How much fun our Family (who by the way I've nicknamed THAT FAMILY) has and also how real we are. I got to tell you Real is us 100% of the time, Fun maybe 25% with another 25% for tantrums and uncontrollable emotions, and about 50% boring and busy! All with that mantra...Pssst your living life my friend one day at a time.
Also about the same time I had someone de=facebook me because they didn't like watching all our antics on FB. Honestly I laughed, and silently thanked myself for their actions....Psst again in my ear....goodbye to people who don't uplift you!!
So you take the good with the bad and "Make your mess your Message" one of my favorite quotes from Robin Roberts. People will silently (or verbally) judge you every minute of everyday. But this is what I've learned; PSSSTTT....how you respond to those judgments is what defines you. Your words and actions need to be alright with your soul...and if its not you make it so. Ahhhaaaa?!!
I had someone a little while ago comment on how they love watching all of my families antics on social media. How much fun our Family (who by the way I've nicknamed THAT FAMILY) has and also how real we are. I got to tell you Real is us 100% of the time, Fun maybe 25% with another 25% for tantrums and uncontrollable emotions, and about 50% boring and busy! All with that mantra...Pssst your living life my friend one day at a time.
Also about the same time I had someone de=facebook me because they didn't like watching all our antics on FB. Honestly I laughed, and silently thanked myself for their actions....Psst again in my ear....goodbye to people who don't uplift you!!
So you take the good with the bad and "Make your mess your Message" one of my favorite quotes from Robin Roberts. People will silently (or verbally) judge you every minute of everyday. But this is what I've learned; PSSSTTT....how you respond to those judgments is what defines you. Your words and actions need to be alright with your soul...and if its not you make it so. Ahhhaaaa?!!